“It’s not the kind of place you might accidentally drive by. You
            
            
              have to be seeking us out,” Jacobsen said. “That’s part of the mystery.”
            
            
              The solitude-induced spirituality has been part of La Casa’s
            
            
              appeal ever since the mid-1950s, when the Sisters of the Immaculate
            
            
              Heart opened La Casa de Maria, using the place as a retreat center
            
            
              for married couples to strengthen their relationship with God and
            
            
              one another. Over the years, La Casa slowly began opening its doors
            
            
              to outside groups, at first religious, but then also ones devoted to
            
            
              education, personal growth, community service, and art. At the same
            
            
              time, the center began developing its own program of retreats.
            
            
              “That’s one of the things that makes La Casa so special,” said
            
            
              Shawne Mitchell, La Casa’s Outreach and Volunteer coordinator. “The
            
            
              roots are quite spiritual. There were a lot of people here who were
            
            
              deeply praying, which gets imbued into the land. It was initiated as a
            
            
              place for love, devotion, and service – it’s in the ambiance of the land.”
            
            
              On that September day that I first visited, it turned out that
            
            
              Mitchell was at that moment in the process of emailing me about
            
            
              some of the new programs. Coincidence? Here, amid the oaks and the
            
            
              artifacts, it seemed like the synchronicity was somehow not all that
            
            
              surprising.
            
            
              After a mini-tour, I spent a lot of time on my own, in a self-
            
            
              
                MINDFULNESS MEDITATION
              
            
            
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              or a decade, Radhule Weininger, MD, PhD, has led
            
            
              a Mindfulness Meditation, which begins with a short
            
            
              talk followed by a gently guided meditation and traditional
            
            
              Metta (loving kindness) practice, at La Casa. She also offers
            
            
              a Mindfulness Practice Retreat one Sunday per month, and
            
            
              will be among the leaders of a 24-hour Contemplative New
            
            
              Year’s Eve retreat and co-conduct a study series in January
            
            
              and February on “Awakening the Heart: Reconnecting with
            
            
              Ourselves & Our World”.
            
            
              “It’s a wonderful place for people to explore the sacred or
            
            
              luminous and delve into new frontiers between psychology and
            
            
              spirituality. La Casa welcomes that exploration,” said Weininger,
            
            
              who has developed several workshops on site, including a
            
            
              current path in compassionate meditation that she’s turning into
            
            
              a book. “It has a marvelous energy, which none of us can explain,
            
            
              but you can feel it. There’s a sense of warmth and goodwill, a
            
            
              genuine wish for helping people from all walks of life to grow.”
            
            
              While she maintains an office in a space on the grounds
            
            
              of the Santa Barbara Museum of Natural History, Weininger
            
            
              remains devoted to continuing her work at La Casa because of
            
            
              that indefinable aura.
            
            
              “People come there who have an ache in their heart and
            
            
              need some time to heal. La Casa de Maria has been a very
            
            
              compassionate place to be when you are at the crossroads.”
            
            
              
                (La Casa de Maria Retreat Center is at 800 El Bosque Road
              
            
            
              
                in Montecito. For information on visiting, programs, or booking a
              
            
            
              
                retreat, call 969-5031 or visit www.lacasademaria.org.)
              
            
            
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